Come and Go

When I left teaching in public schools, it was not an easy decision. There were many factors that led me to my decision and I have no regrets. As much as I loved teaching, I had to step away and take a new direction. In doing so, I struggled with the idea of losing connections with people. I was taking a new trajectory and creating a new norm. Taking a new path would result in meeting new people, but also potentially people leaving your life. This truth was disheartening.

Since leaving my teaching practice, I have met many incredible people and engaged in many learning opportunities I would not have had I stayed in the classroom. For this, I am thankful. For the first couple of years, it was difficult for me to move forward knowing that some of my friends, colleagues, or family members may not follow me on my journey. With each unfollow and unfriend, it would be easy to self-doubt my decision. With no announcement or goodbyes… they were just gone.

Five years later, what I have learned is that people will come and go regardless of my actions. Some may be attracted or aligned to what I am doing… that’s AWESOME!!! Some will continue to support me, unconditionally… and I thank you. For others, our paths will separate because we’re no longer aligned. We are moving in different directions and one of us chooses to leave. That’s OK. Our paths may reconnect once again, or not. I accept this phenomena. No more resisting. I am letting go.

As people come and go, I am thankful for the lessons that are learned. I am grateful for your mentoring and help. I am confident that our paths were meant to meet. I am passionate about what I am doing and I am taking steps towards my goal. Thank you to everyone who has contributed to my dreams and direction. #celebration