LISTEN

Each day on my pedagogical journey I learn something new.  I am much more aware of my surroundings and I feel awakened.  It seems that with every person I meet, with every conversation I have, and with every new experience… I am learning.  For instance, I went to a conference last weekend and listened to many inspirational speakers, but also I had the opportunity to chat with others.  I met one person at the service awards event who completed her EdD and we shared a common experience with our research.  I met another person that I met twice before, once as a mathematics teacher and another time as a graduate student.  This time, I met her as a school trustee.  It was a wonderful and joyous reunion.  Finally, I met a person during lunch who dramatically changed his career after 20 years of service in a different field and he was optimistic.  I love that I get a chance to meet these people and LISTEN to their stories.  I was meant to meet these people.

On the other hand, when I find myself not listening, I am EDU-RANTING.  It’s more like listening to myself.  Note: Ranting serves no purpose but to be heard.  For example, a few days ago I found myself in situations where I wished I had not said what I said.  It is not to say that what I said was “confidential” or “controversial” but I found myself second guessing myself whether or not what I said was appropriate.  I even deliberated the blog’s title.  “Nothing’s a Secret”… “Learn to Listen”… “Right Place, Right Time.”  As you can see, I had moments of regret.  As an extroverted politician, I show my cards to others.  I have nothing to hide.  This could be a good trait, or a bad one.  In hindsight, I could have spent more time listening.  Listening is a powerful tool.  You just don’t know what you are going to learn without listening.  Listen to others, listen to yourself.  Follow your instincts.