Don’t Force It

You cannot force life to happen.  Think about your golf swing (or curling shot, no matter).  If you try too hard… think too much… or set unrealistic goals… it is highly likely that you’ll be disappointed because the outcome will never turn out the way you want it to.  Conversely, you cannot let life happen to you.  This would be an ongoing experience of disappointment because you don’t feel empowered enough to make a difference in your own life.  To be a better golfer (or curler) you might have to practice, develop your skills, or step out of your box.  In essence, you need to take the necessary steps to achieve your goal (or fulfill your vision).  Unfortunately, this journey is undefined.  The learning process requires you to put yourself out there, make some mistakes, and learn from them.  There is no failure.  What truly matters is what you do next with what you’ve learned.  #learningopportunities