Best 10 Years

I cannot believe it has been 10 years since my kid entered my life.  My life completely turned around when she was born.  From a full-time teacher, careerist, and 24/7 educator… to a full-time mom, nurturer, and 24/7 provider.  I had no idea what I was getting into, but I have no regrets.  Certainly there has been many up-days and some down-days.  Overall it’s been an awesome ride so far.  Aside from the fact that there is no manual or guidebook to tell me when “the rules” change, what I love most about my kid is her innate ability to humble me.  I thought I was a pretty strong willed, clearly opinionated, and an independent thinking individual.  I pale in comparison to my kid.  She too is a strong willed, clearly opinionated, and an independent thinking individual.  She is honest, thought provoking, and willing to question authority.  She is a critical thinker, self-determined, and stubborn.  But she is also kind, good-intentioned, and community-oriented.  The more I describe her, I am thinking “apple-tree.”  I don’t think I can blame this one on my husband.  I am proud of my kid.  She forces me to reflect and be a better person.  I appreciate how she is willing to question my decisions and character.  It takes a lot of courage considering she could be told to go to her room or time-out.  Teaching and learning between us is continuous and reciprocated.  I look forward to the next 10 years.  Love.